I Left My Shit on the Porch (Literally)

In January, I turned 45. In June, I had my yearly check-up with my primary doctor, where she informed me that it was time to do my first colon cancer check.

Ah, yes. I had been warned of this at my med check in December when my 45th birthday was less than a month away. The age for colon cancer screenings has been lowered to 45 and than meant it would be coming for me by our next appointment.

And she didn’t forget.

My doctor gave me two options because I’m at average risk for colon cancer. She said that I could do the full shebang colonoscopy that required the day and a half of prep, much of which would be spent on the toilet clearing out my bowels of everything I’d eaten in the last six to seven years, and the procedure, which would require me to be put under anesthesia, which meant I’d need someone to drive me to and from the procedure, and given my history of anesthesia, probably take care of me for the rest of the day because holy shit does it render me useless. So, we’re talking a two to three day ordeal, but if it came back negative, I wouldn’t have to do it again for another ten years.

The other option was Colaguard. They send you the kit, you collect the sample, you send it back, and if it comes back negative, you don’t have to do it again for three years, at which time you could always ask to do a proper colonoscopy.

Given everything going on in my life at the time -my father’s health, being his primary caretaker, not having someone who could take care of me- I chose to shit in a box.

Let me be perfectly clear: Colaguard is great. It makes it very easy to do this in the comfort of your own bathroom. Everything you need is included in the box. The step-by-step instructions are clear. Sending the sample back is easy. They make this so easy and so convenient. It’s honestly terrific. Their entire gig is 10/10. No complaints.

However.

I ended up receiving my Colaguard while my father was doing his latest stint in the hospital and I was driving 30 minutes back and forth to see him in the hospital before work. I was also due for fasting blood work to be done, and was struggling to get that accomplished. So, I was a little bit stressed and didn’t really have time to be dealing with this. But they prefer that you provide the sample soonish after receiving your kit, so I was then further pressed to find a time when I had time to do this and when I’d be prepared to give the sample, if you know what I mean.

The Friday of the week I received my kit I suppose fortune smiled on me. It was my day off. I was sitting at the local hospital waiting to get my blood work done (and starving in the process) when my father called to let me know that he was being discharged. I arranged to pick him up later than afternoon so I could get my blood work done (since that was already happening), run some errands, and do a little housework, which I’d been neglecting due to lack of time, energy, and will to live. And as fate would have it, I was also blessed with an urge to shit.

I am grateful that I had the opportunity to do this while I was home alone because I was a giggling goober while getting everything set up. To make this as mess-free as possible, Colaguard provides you with a kind of holder that goes across your toilet that the specimen cup sits right in. You poop directly in the cup, no shit fishing required. It’s great.

However.

Where that cup sits is right under your butt. You can feel it touching your cheeks. Or maybe I can feel it touch my cheeks because I have such ample cheeks. And I don’t know about your body, but my body says that if something is touching me in that fashion, I cannot poop. Not supposed to poop there. This is a no pooping zone.

So, here I am, 45 years old, doing an out loud pep talk to myself to get me to shit in a cup. Hire me out as a motivational speaker because I eventually convinced myself to do it.

Once you shit in the specimen container, you do have to obtain a separate sample to be put in a tube with some liquid. Again, they make it as easy and mess-free as possible. You swirl this little specimen stick in your shit, get a sample on the end of the stick, and put the whole stick in a tube.. Easy. Unless you’re me. Then you find yourself questioning whether or not there’s an ample amount of shit on the end of your stick. Eventually -probably a minute and multiple swirls too long- I convinced myself that it was good enough.

I got everything labeled and preserved (my doctor made sure to tell me that the liquid included in the kit was for preserving the shit and not to be taken internally, as some people had apparently made that mistake) and packaged up. I then need to schedule a delivery. By this point in the day, my shit would have to be picked up on Saturday. That’s fine. I put it on the mail table by the front door and went on with my day, including picking up my discharged father from the hospital, who found it very amusing that my shit was sitting by the front door.

I put my shit on the front porch the next morning before I went to work so the UPS guy could pick it up.

Now, here’s the thing.

They don’t give you a time for the pick up, just the day. I know that the UPS guy delivers in the afternoon, but having never had him pick anything up before, I had no idea if he did that at a different time. As it turns out, he picks up when he drops off. But I didn’t know that until it happened. So, my shit sat on the front porch all day and I spent all day fretting about my shit on the front porch. Because it was hot and my front porch isn’t covered. Would my shit get too hot if it sat out there too long? Would that ruin the sample? Would I have to go through this again? Would the UPS man hold it against me because I made him pick up my shit? The mind runs wild while you’re waiting for your shit to disappear from the front porch.

To free you from the suspense, the UPS man picked up my shit, the sample was received just fine, and, most importantly, it was negative.

I look forward to doing this all again in three years.

So, if you’re 45 or older, get your colon cancer screenings, and if you’re of average risk and not up to a colonoscopy, I highly suggest going the Colaguard route.

It’s a worthwhile adventure.