Happy Pride. I had a bisexual thought and since I have the time, I’m going to share it with all of you. I’m not the least bit sorry.
I was thinking the other day that I feel sorry for some cis het guys. You have the best good fortune of being attracted to women, right? Women are beautiful. They come in the widest, most exquisite varieties of beauty. It’s a naturally occurring thing. They exist and they’re beautiful. I love being attracted to women. It is four leaf clover lucky to be attracted to women.
And yet…
There are some cis het men who limit themselves in their attraction. There’s an entire buffet of women out there, all of these choices, but they insist on only indulging in one specific item. And it seems that their restriction is based almost entirely on the fact that the one thing they allow themselves is approved by other men. Even if they don’t want it, even if they’d rather have something else, they still restrict themselves to that one thing.
It’s probably not in the best taste (pun possibly intended) to compare women to food, but let’s face it. Cis het men are starving themselves.
Now, this would be about the time that some people might bring up preference. People have preferences. Are cis het men not allowed to have preferences?
Yes. They are. My point is that some of them are choosing to suppress their preferences in favor of pursuing women that other men approve of, and these men have also been conditioned by the pedo beauty standards and patriarchal need to keep women small. They aren’t acting on their preferences because, my god, what will the bros think?
There’s also the fact that a preference is something that you prefer. I prefer curvy women, but I won’t turn down a woman who’s not curvy because that’s not the only attraction metric I use. Yes, finding someone physically attractive matters, but if I am attracted to other aspects of a person, then I’m guaranteed to find them physically attractive, even if they’re not my preference.
For some cis het men, that one preference is the ONLY point of attraction and they will not accept anything else, which really makes it less of a preference and more of a demand.
Now, this would be the time that some people would say that I’m just mad and/or bitter that I’m fat and ugly and men don’t like me, and again, let me point out…I’m attracted to women. Yes, I’m also attracted to men, and I have no doubt that a great many men would trip over themselves to tell me that I’m hideous. Those are not men that I want to know. Those are not men that I will twist myself into something acceptable for. I don’t have to. Not when I can simply exist and have women be attracted to me.
I realize that these are just some shallow thinky thoughts on a much deeper subject. There’s a whole lot more to this whole men-dating-for-men phenomenon and I know that other people have spoken more eloquently about it.
I’m just saying that you’re attracted to women and you won’t even let yourself enjoy them.
That’s wild.
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